What bothers you and why?
From the moment I met you, it felt like I’d known you all my life. We embarked on an adventure filled with sunflowers and occasional rain. The day we brought our baby home, my world changed profoundly. I felt an overwhelming love for our little one and a newfound appreciation for you, who gave me this wonderful gift. But somehow, in that same moment, I began to lose you.
The man who once cried with me and shared my worries seemed to transform into someone I no longer recognize. I ignored the arguments at first, believing I was at fault. But now, a year later, I realize the man I fell for and the man in front of me are not the same. I feel foolish for falling so deeply and quickly, and now I question if you ever felt the same way.
These days, my tears, sadness, and worries seem meaningless to you. The tender care you once showed me has vanished. I feel alone in this relationship, with you only present when you choose to be. I’ve been fighting for us since day one, but I’ve reached a breaking point. I need to see you fight for us too, to know that we are in this together.
I’ve always tried to be there for you, supporting you in every way I can, sharing in your joys and shouldering your burdens. I’ve cherished every moment, from our happiest times to the challenges we faced together. I’ve been clear about what I want, but I don’t think you know what you want. Your treatment of me, the lack of defense for me, and the constant emotional neglect suggest you may not want to be with me. When someone loves another, they show it in every possible way. You say you love me, but I don’t feel it, and that hurts because I know I deserve better.
This is my love letter to you. Love is something given freely, without expectation. If we are meant to be, we will weather this storm together. If not, I am grateful for the opportunity to have loved you and hope you find someone who makes you feel as I feel about you.
Adulting & Motherhood 